Throughout our lives, we encounter a plethora of expressions, idioms, and phrases that weave their way into our everyday conversations. Often, these expressions become so ingrained in our dialogue that we accept them as a natural part of our language. We use them seamlessly, rarely pausing to consider their origins or the precise meaning behind the words. This habitual use can lead to a fascinating disconnect between the phrases we speak and our understanding of them.
The word "cares" as defined in the dictionary is a state of being concerned or worried about something. It involves troubling oneself with issues or situations that may lead to anxiety or even losing sleep. These encompass the mental and emotional energy we expend on matters that occupy our thoughts.
The scripture from 1 Peter 5:6-7 conveys the command, “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” (NKJV) In the original Greek language, the word "care" conveys meanings such as "solicitude" or "distractions." The term "solicitude" refers to a state of being characterized by concern, anxiety, or worry for someone or something.
We should strive to avoid burdening ourselves excessively with cares that may hinder our well-being. By doing so, we can cultivate a healthier mindset that allows us to focus on what truly matters and manage our responsibilities more effectively.
Philippians 4:6-7 resonates powerfully, “Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.” (KJV) The original Greek meaning of the word "careful" in this verse refers to experiencing anxiety or displaying a sense of solicitude.
Several words synonymous with careful include concern, anxiety, worry, agonize, and brood. This is precisely why it is crucial to heed this command and actively discourage such behaviors.
I firmly believe that incorporating expressions like "keep well," "stay strong," "stay safe," “be cautious”, or "be mindful" at the end of our interactions conveys a more uplifting and encouraging message than simply using the misused phrase "take care." These alternative expressions not only offer a sense of warmth and support but also emphasize a proactive approach to well-being.
TAKE CARE?
When I hear the expression "take care," I find myself hesitating to respond with the usual "okay" or "you too." This reaction stems from my knowledge of and the deeper implications embedded within the word care or cares.
